The Why, Dad? Podcast

About

Welcome to the 'Why, Dad?' podcast! Join us as we embark on a thought-provoking exploration of what it means to become the best man, husband, and father we can be. Fed by our unique perspectives of a young father and an aspiring one, we tackle essential questions with curiosity and honesty: How do we grow into the roles we aspire to? How do we love our children deeply and guide them toward true happiness, peace, success, and fulfillment?

We dive into the messy realities of parenting, navigating fraught emotions, unexpected curveballs, and seemingly insurmountable challenges. By uncovering the truths and principles behind parenting, we aim to share practical ways to lead our families with grace and resilience, offering insights and stories to inspire dads everywhere.

Meet the Hosts

Paul Wandrey

I married Sarah in 2019 and we are now blessed with two kids here on earth and two in heaven. Shortly after we lost our daughter, Isla, born at 22 weeks, I found myself lacking the energy, skills, and know-how to be the husband and dad my wife and daughter needed and deserved. On top of that, I wanted Isla to know that she has a kick-ass dad who loves her and, had she lived, one who would have supported her and set her up for the best life possible.

But how could I do this? By leveling up and starting to show up the way my family so desperately required. Easier said than done, but I was and am determined to figure this out. This podcast is a way for me to make this happen and if I can help anyone else along the way, all the better.

Andrew Stolpestad

Hi I'm Andrew, only two people in the world get to call me Andy, and Paul isn't one of them.

I grew up in a very Catholic household, and even attended seminary for a while. I'm your typical Minnesota boy. Fishing, hunting and outdoors are my hobbies and passions.

Currently I am a PUNK (professional uncle no kids of my own) to two nieces and three nephews. I am on the market and dream of having my own family. So when Paul asked me about this podcast I was more than eager to join him. What better way to prepare myself for fatherhood and being a husband than to discuss the topics with a dad and close friend?

Latest Episodes

Episode 1: Raising Kids, Raising Ourselves: The Why Dad Podcast

Andrew Stolpestad and Paul Wandrey, long-time friends and practically brothers, launch the 'Why Dad?' podcast. Aimed at helping themselves and others navigate the challenges and joys of fatherhood, the podcast addresses key questions about raising children, self-improvement, and building a supportive community for dads and aspiring dads. Andrew, aspiring to be a father, and Paul, a father of a three-year-old with another on the way, share their personal stories, values, and experiences. They hope to offer guidance, resources, and a sense of fellowship to dads who might feel isolated or unsupported. The first episode discusses motivation, discipline, and virtues essential for personal and parental success. ...

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Episode 2: A Dad's Search for Purpose

In this introspective and relatable episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew dive into a question that many of us have asked ourselves: What are you doing with your life? Through candid conversation and lighthearted banter, they explore what it means to find purpose, align your actions with your values, and navigate the chaos of life with intention. Whether you're feeling stuck, seeking direction, or just curious how others approach this timeless question, this episode will leave you feeling inspired and ready to tackle life with renewed focus. ...

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Episode 3: Fatherhood as a Legacy and Responsibility

This episode of the Why Dad Podcast dives deep into the profound idea of fatherhood as both a legacy and a responsibility. Hosts Paul and Andrew explore what it truly means to build something that endures, not just for your children, but for their children's children and beyond. Whether you're a seasoned dad, considering fatherhood, or simply striving to be a better man, this conversation will challenge your perspective on what it means to leave your mark. They discuss moving beyond the traditional concept of legacy and instead focus on the intentional cultivation of character, values, and principles that shape future generations. This episode will inspire you to consider the ripple effect of your actions and how you can actively contribute to a better future, starting with yourself and your family. ...

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Episode 4: Beyond Responsibility: The Power of Accountability

Get ready to dive deep into the powerful concept of responsibility with Andrew and Paul on this episode of the "Why Dad?" podcast! Forget the boring old definitions – they're tackling responsibility as a game-changer for both personal growth and raising awesome kids. ...

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